The body is a great intelligence that has a story to tell. In listening to it, we gain a wise consul to guide us on our healing journey. Mindfulness helps us slow down to hear what the body has to say.

In mindfulness-based therapy, there is an inward focus to notice what is happening. This is listening to the body. Sounds simple enough, right? The practice, however, is more challenging due to our other brilliant friend the brain. This where therapy is helpful, as is meditation, yoga and other mind-body ways of being.

The idea is to open up as much space as possible to tune into our internal experience. The therapist facilitates this by asking questions like ”Can we linger here?” In learning to stay with our feelings and sensations with a caring other tremendous resources emerge.

The best piece of advice to come out of the field of positive psychology is to make strong personal relationships your priority. Good relationships are buffers against the damaging effects of all of life’s inevitable letdowns and setbacks.

Couples who celebrated holiday traditions together were happier in their unions, a 2001 study reported.  Researchers found that the shared emotional investment in the ritual made the couples feel a closer bond.

Mindfulness, a mental state of relaxed awareness of the present moment, marked by openness and curiosity toward your feelings rather than judgments of them, is a powerful tool for experiencing happiness when practiced regularly. (See blog “Ten Deep Breaths”) If you can bring mindfulness to bear on negative feelings, they lose their impact. Just let them [Read More...]

“One can’t believe impossible things,” Alice said. “I daresay you haven’t had much practice,” said the Queen.  “When I was your age, I always did if for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I’ve believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.” – Lewis Carrol, Alice in Wonderland

Human, divine, human, divine. Why do we conceive there is a difference? – Jai Uttal

You don’t have to dedicate a huge chunk of time to meditation. You can get stress relief with just ten deep breaths. To do it, sit down in a quiet place, close your eyes and breathe in slowly. Picture the air coming in through the nose and circling to the back of your throat. Exhale [Read More...]

So just what exactly is “happiness”? The most useful definition – and it’s one agreed upon by neuroscientists, psychiatrist, behavioral economists, positive psychologists, and Buddhist monks – is more like satisfied or content than “happy” in its strict bursting-with-glee sense. It has depth and deliberation to it. It encompasses living a meaningful life, utilizing your [Read More...]

This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing [Read More...]

The code has been cracked on how to make a better veggie burger.  Turn the patty into the bun! You can store shaped, ready-to-cook patties in the fridge or freezer. 2 1/2 cups chickpeas (garbanzo beans) 4 large eggs 1/2 teaspoon sea salt 1/3 cup cilantro 1 onion, chopped Zest from one large lemon 1 [Read More...]